It is estimated that 50% of the pregnancies in the U.S. are UNINTENDED (not necessarily unwanted, but unintended). Pregnancy should be considered a 12 month period with a 3 month pre-conception period. A planned, intended pregnancy should begin with a pre-conception consultation with a doctor involving both the potential mother and father. Why?

 

Perhaps as many as 50% of pregnancies result in miscarriage (many miscarriages occur before pregnancy is recognized).

15-20%--miscarriage in recognized preg.

12.5%--rate of prematurity (< 37 weeks)

3.5%--rate of birth defects

(March of Dimes Web site)

 

All women of child-bearing age should be taking 400 mcg. of Folic Acid daily to reduce the incidence of birth defects.

 

 

 

 

 

HUMAN SEXUALITY, what is normal sexual expression, or is there such a thing?

 

Sexuality surveys show us that activities that might be considered morally wrong or deviant are engaged in by many people. This make it difficult to call those activities “abnormal” In the tables below m.=male and f.=female.

                 

Kinsey (1947)                                 Hunt (1972)

Masturbation

General Population-m-92%, 49/yr  94%, 52/yr

                           f-62%, 21/yr    63%, 37/yr

 

Married people------m-40%, 12/yr  72%, 24/yr

                                 f--33%, 10/yr    68%, 10/yr

Oral sex

Fellatio---------------------42-43%      61-72%

Cunnilingus----------------45-58%      66-72%

 

Bestiality-----------m-8%,f-3.6%  m-4.9%,f-2%

male growing up on a farm=17%

 

Homosexuality   Kinsey                 Hunt

 

1 contact in life

to orgasm, m=37%,f=20%

 

1 contact

after age 15, m=25%, f=18%: m=20%, f=16%

 

exclusive--m=2-3%, f=2%       m=2%, f=2%

 

bisexual

orientation-m=7-8%, f=7-8%:m=7-8%,f=7-8%                              

 

1993 Janus Report -- A nationwide U.S. survey

A. Have you ever had a homosexual experience?, m=22%, f=17%

B.  Do you have frequent or ongoing homosexual experiences as adults?, m=9%, f=5%.

C. Do you have a self identity as a homosexual?, m=4%, f=2%.

 

In part, because of this survey data the American Psychiatric Association on Dec 14, 1973 voted to remove homosexuality from the Diagnostic and Statistical manual of Mental Disorders. Thus homosexuality is no considered to be abnormal.

 

RESEARCH ON WHAT IS AROUSING TO MEN AND WOMEN

 

In a pilot study, 19 pictures of varying sexual content (e.g., man in undershorts, nude woman, clothed woman, group oral sex) were shown to a group of male subjects who rated the pictures on a scale of how aroused they felt viewing the picture, 0=no arousal, 5=great arousal.

 

 

 

 

 

Expecting that men might be more aroused by pictures and that women might be more aroused by erotic stories, Byrne and Lamberth then created 19 written passages, with each passage being a description of the content of each picture. Thus pictures and written passages were matched in content. Then male and female subjects were either shown the pictures or given the passages to read. After each picture or written passage, the subject rated arousal on the same 0=none, 5=great arousal scale. The results:

 

PICTURES------m=22.7, f=19.5

PASSAGES-----m=23.1, f=25.6

 

The above results were not statistically significant. Thus men and women did not differ in their levels of arousal to either erotic pictures or erotic written passages. However, the above results showed only mild levels of arousal.

 

 A rating of 1 to each picture or passage would give a score of 19; a rating of 5 to all 19 stimuli would have given a score of 95!

 

The same authors then conducted the study over again, adding a new condition. In the IMAGINATION condition, which had matching contents with the 19 stimuli, subjects were simply told to use their imagination to respond to the following content (e.g., imaging a naked couple petting). The results showed stronger arousal effects for the imagination condition, suggesting that imaginative fantasies can be more personally involving.

 

PICTURES---------21.12

PASSAGES--------24.33

IMAGINATION--43.15

 

 

 

 

Again, men and women were equal in overall arousal to the 19 contents, but some contents were differentially arousing to the two genders.

 

Contents more arousing to m than f: Clothed woman, group oral sex, nude woman

 

Contents more arousing to f than m: homosexual fellatio, man in undershorts, nude man, man masturbating.

 

A gender difference in sources of sexual arousal has recently been discovered.

 

For men there is greater specificity in the source of arousal than for women.

 

For gay men, there must be a male represented in the erotica for arousal to occur. For straight men, there must be a woman represented in the erotica for arousal to occur.

 

Both lesbian women and straight women the source of arousal can come from either a man or a woman.

 

THE STAGES OF SEXUAL AROUSAL, basically the work of MASTERS & JOHNSON

 

Most experts talk of 5 stages of sexual arousal. The first stage was added by Helen Singer Kaplan; the following four come from Masters and Johnson.

 

1a. Desire—Kaplan

 

Masters & Johnson

1b. Excitement

2. Plateau

3. Orgasm

4. Resolution

 

 

 

Stages 1-4 are marked by physiological changes in vasocongestion (swelling of tissues and blood vessels in the sexual organs) and myotonia (muscle tension). Both these processes decrease in stage 4. Men and women are similar in the five stages, except for stage 4. Most men (after the teen years) go immediately to Resolution after Orgasm. Women are much more capable than men to experience multiple orgasms before resolution.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Masters and Johnson’s MYTHS of human sexuality:

 

1. Women have two kinds of orgasms: vaginal and clitoral.  Wrong!

2. Big penises are better penises.  Wrong!

3. Men are more sexually responsive than women. Wrong!

4. Direct clitoral stimulation is most pleasurable for a woman. Wrong!

5. Simultaneous orgasms are the ultimate goal of sexuality. Wrong!