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Before she even got out of bed on speech
day, Stephanie was already feeling sick. A lump of dread in her
stomach made the thought of eating breakfast almost unimaginable.
By the time she got to school, things had only gotten worse.
As she entered the speech classroom, her
stomach felt like she had bats inside her, battering their way to
daylight. Her mouth was dry and she had to go to the bathroom —
even though she had stopped in the women’s room right before she
came to class.
When the teacher called her name, she
could feel her pulse pounding in her head and neck. Her hands were
sweaty and her mouth became dry. She thought to herself, “I wonder
if this is what it feels like to die?”
The human body is designed to protect us from
fearful situations. If someone were chasing you with the intent of
doing you harm, your body has all sorts of mechanisms to try and
keep you safe.
For example, blood flow becomes prioritized.
The greater majority of it goes to your large muscle groups to
help you run faster. (Your brain gets shortchanged in this
process, because your body figures you won’t be asked many
important questions while you’re running for your life.)
Similarly, digestive processes get put on
hold. Saliva production is nearly stopped, and your stomach no
longer works on processing your food. Instead, your body puts
energy into such things as, well, making more energy. Large
amounts of sugar are released into your blood stream to fuel your
large muscle groups.
You sweat profusely in an attempt to keep
your body cool and functioning at peak performance while you run.
Adrenaline races through your body. Even your bladder tries to
help the cause by giving the urge to download as much unnecessary
weight as possible. Everything is about getting energy to those
large muscle groups.
Your breathing quickens to help maximize
oxygen intake, important for optimum muscle function.
Okay, but no one is really chasing you. You
are terrified out of your wits because your computer crashed,
taking with it the only copy of your semester project. Or someone
has just asked you to give a speech. You’re still frightened, but
in a different way than if someone were chasing you. You’re
worried about failure and humiliation, not survival.
But your body only knows how to do “fear” one
way. It prepares you for flight — even though you’re pretty sure
no one in the speech classroom is going to chase you. The result
is a lot of terrifying symptoms that make you feel truly miserable
when it’s time to give a speech. Some students even break out in
angry red hives all over their neck and face when they try to
speak in public! (This is their reaction to the fear-producing
chemicals racing through their blood.)
So, what is the point of knowing all this if
your body doesn’t know how to properly react to modern-day scary
situations? If you know why you’re feeling the way you are,
you are less likely to be frightened by the symptoms themselves.
And by understanding the symptoms, you can counteract them as
efficiently as possible.
Tips for the Day of Your Speech
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Don’t eat high-sugar foods or drink caffeine before
your speech. Remember, you body is already increasing your
sugar content and your adrenaline level is higher than normal.
Additional sugar or stimulant will most likely give you the shakes
— a visible sign of nervousness you can easily control by watching
your diet on speech day.
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Don’t eat a big meal before you speak. Although
it’s never a good idea to go without food before a speech or other
performance, you want to be sure to keep your eating light.
Remember, your body makes digestion a very low priority when
you’re nervous. Eat too much, and your food will simply lay in
your stomach undigested, making you even more uncomfortable than
you already are.
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Try keeping your mouth moist before you speak. Remember,
salivation is put on hold during fight or flight, so your mouth
will get dry when you’re nervous. (That’s why so many professional
speakers have water pitchers and glasses right next to the
podium.) Try a throat lozenge or hard candy, but be sure there’s
nothing in your mouth when you speak.
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