Of the wives of artisans [craftsmen] and how they ought to conduct themselves.
. . . All wives of artisans should be very painstaking and diligent
if they wish to have the necessities of life. They should encourage
their husbands or their workmen to get to work early in the morning and
work until late, for mark our words, there is no trade so good that if
you neglect your work you will not have difficulty putting bread on the
table. And besides encouraging the others, the wife herself should
be involved in the work to the extent that she knows all about it, so that
she may know how to oversee his workers if her husband is absent, and to
reprove them if they do not do well. She ought to oversee them to
keep them from idleness, for through careless workers the master is sometimes
ruined. And when customers come to her husband and try to drive a
hard bargain, she ought to warn him solicitously to take care that he does
not make a bad deal. She should advise him to be chary of giving
too much credit if he does not know precisely where and to whom it is going,
for in this way many come to poverty, although sometimes the greed to earn
more or to accept a tempting proposition makes them do it.
In addition, she ought to keep her husband's love
as much as she can, to this end: that he will stay at home more willingly
and that he may not have any reason to join the foolish crowds of other
young men in taverns and indulge in unnecessary and extravagant expense,
as many tradesmen do, especially in Paris. By treating him kindly
she should protect him as well as she can from this. It is said that
three things drive a man from his home: a quarrelsome wife, a smoking fireplace
and a leaking roof. She too ought to stay at home gladly and not
go every day traipsing hither and yon gossiping with the neighbours and
visiting her chums to find out what everyone is doing. That is done
by slovenly housewives roaming about the town in groups. Nor should
she go off on these pilgrimages got up for no good reason and involving
a lot of needless expense. Furthermore, she ought to remind her husband
that they should live so frugally that their expenditure does not exceed
their income, so that at the end of the year they do not find themselves
in debt.
If she has children, she should have them instructed
and taught first at school by educated people so that they may know how
better to serve God. Afterwards they may be put to some trade by
which they may earn a living, for whoever gives a trade or business training
to her child gives a great possession.